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Sunday, August 4, 2013

Ben & Daphne - 3 December 2013






Last 3 December 2012, I witnessed one a friend gracefully embracing a new chapter of her life

That is Marriage... becoming a wife... and perhaps anytime soon being a mother.

I promised to be at her wedding no matter what ... but I was given a front seat because I was asked to help take photos using iphone. Yes nothing more but I phone.  It was the bride's special request.

And of course I did ... so lovingly.

Here are some snippets of Ben and Daphne's lovely union.

In my mind then, I just wanted to capture the big day as it happens with people their love and for my friend- Daphne, I wanted to capture not just the order of wedding ceremony but the space where Daphne was groomed so beautifully.

Enjoy




My friend getting ready


a "princessy' gown for a lovely bride

Isn't she lovely (with her dad on background)

lovely Daphne


The bride with her bridesmaids

Daphne and her parents

Yey the finally bride meets groom

but not without some difficulty (this pic shows the groom having to drink some bitter concoction

The gate keepers

he had to try opening the padlock 3times (if i remember it correctly)

the ladies up to test Ben's pledge of love :))

and of course He did pass the test
and impressed everyone with a song

Happy couple

Off to togetherness ...

Off they go to togetherness

To Daphne my friend, you have been a lovely princess of a king!  And I wish you and Ben the joyful days in Marriage as the Lord continues to develop your love story.



some snaps of things that make Daphne and Ben's wedding extra special

Thursday, July 18, 2013

Joy is intentional...

Joy is intentional

How come? 

You see when someone causes something pleasant, Joy intends to capture hearts.

When someone meets a need, Joy naturally fills in a void and it bursts gratitude.

When someone takes time to listen, Joy connects two different bridges. 

We can continue to count many ways were Joy is intentional.

But what does it intentionally bring? 

Look around ... 


Tuesday, July 16, 2013

Walk On...


There are a lot of things hovering around my head today. Inside, I could hear my heart pounds fast and a still voice saying "you'll be fine" ... "Walk on..."

This photo that I took during my trip to Mongolia June last year captures that voice within.

So I wonder, how is it that in the midst of a storm I am still around? Not consumed ...

 ... dig deep

Monday, March 11, 2013

Do you really follow me?

I m in this journey again...

Everything looks painfully familiar.

My heart explodes with sharp words of truth landing unto self-denial.

But a still voice speaks from within... Soft but unwavering... soft but certain.

But why do i see myself moving away from where my feet stand?

Please speak to me oh Lord.

Friday, September 21, 2012

Development Takes More Than Just a Speed of Light

(A learning Blog for Module 6, 7, 8, 9, and 10)


A stack of learning ... A year lap



Time really flies fast !  
I looked at the textbooks that I have accumulated within two school semesters with UPOU and I smiled with my eyes twitched.

Aaaaaaah.  I thought it was easy- to study development communication in an open university setting.  I suppose my eyes twitched because I wanted to have a clearer sight of the photo of my textbooks before the image become blur again.  To tell you the truth, my second semester with UPOU was not an easy ride ... especially last 3 months where we have to learn and think fast about social marketing and social mobilization. 

I was mistaken then.  Studies in an open university platform is never easy just because you need not to be in a classroom.  In fact, it is more challenging because you are on your own. 

This entire journey made me realize that my course itself bears the endurance and the kind of attitude that a social marketer or development communication practitioner puts in when one rolls out a social marketing campaign. 

Why?  

Perhaps because social marketing campaigns address some of the deepest needs and issues of humanity.

Perhaps because it promotes life itself.

Perhaps because development per se does not happen overnight.  It is laborious.  It has to be tilled with commitment and "world-wide" passion.

The last four chapters of my subject DEV208 which deals with Social Marketing and Social Mobilization took me into a long journey.  One that will really challenge one's intention about the course.  

The two key words - marketing and mobilization actually took me by surprise despite the fact that I have been part of our marketing team at World Vision- a development aid agency.

My reason is simple, development itself is really a bigggg word and in my context I am more than convinced now that World Vision as a development aid agency cant be all to all.

As such, anyone supporting a humanitarian cause or rolling out a social marketing campaign would need foresight, would need the ability to seek partnership opportunities, would need the ability to mobilize people, would  would need resourcefulness, would need the ability to go beyond identifying a societal problem ... Social Marketing and Social Mobilization are actually action makers in development work. 

The past four topics in my class at DEV208 has given me the opportunity to practice the skills that I mentioned above as I tried to map out social marketing and social mobilization for a topic on disaster risk reduction education for children (primary school students).

I think I did my best to at least pen my thoughts for a possible social marketing campaign.  

And I hope too that the experience will me construct my own bridge to the real world of social marketing

Below is what my social marketing campaign desires ... a sound and child-friendly disaster risk reduction education for the Filipinos. 



http://www.unicef.org/ceecis/emergencies_16525.html
Source: http://www.unicef.org/ceecis/emergencies_16525.html


http://www.unicef.org/ceecis/emergencies_16525.html



Sunday, July 22, 2012

Swimming Within the Social Marketing Environments (DF 4 Learning Blog)


I picked this image as an illustration of how disastrous it is when one does not know what to do in a disaster. Disaster Risk Reduction is the topic I used to illustrate the lessons I learned in module 4 of DEV 208. Image courtesy of my favorite crafts blogsite : http://mmmcrafts.blogspot.sg/
 
DF4 opens and ends with me zooming in and out the different factors that affect a social marketing plan.


My "heavy-weight" reading material blinks with the words

1) Social marketing
2) focus
3) Environment
4) SWOT

and goes to say "have" to "Map the internal and external environments".  I seriously did not understand the usage of environment in this subject until I painstakingly read and reread the stack of reading materials.

"I thought that "purpose" and "focus" were the same".  "I thought that "background" and "rationale" are the same too". I had to mentally ask myself these questions and had to find my own answer to be able to start mapping my answers.

I think I did with the best of my ability and understanding and with the help of the given resources, my classmates at DEV208, and of course the internet where it serves a plethora of information. THANK YOU cyberspace!

So what did i exactly learn out of  module 4?



1) Social Marketing wears two skins - internal and external environments

For any social marketing campaign, it is important how well you know in both the internal and external environments of the campaign.  This is important to have a good grasp of the both environment since most if not all social marketing campaigns though specifically directed to a specific audience, takes the entire community to move for the campaign to be more than just a one time event.  Social marketing campaigns are directed towards societal gains.

2) The Macroenvironment holds the baton

Looking at the illustration at figure 5.2 where it illustrates the factors and forces influencing the target market and the effectivity of the campaign efforts, one can almost conclude that planning for a campaign can be like swimming from shallow shores to the deep crease of the ocean. There are simply layers and layers of factors that one need to manage before the campaign is able to fully manage the target audience.

While the rings of influence encircles the target audience, it is noticeable that the government / political leaders is placed at the outermost ring from the target audience alongside factors such as nature, culture, and technology (generally categorized as the macroenvironment).  From the illustration they look far from the target audience - which is usually in the case of an ordinary citizen but its influence affects all and holds the sustainability of the campaign. This is such because the government makes governmental policies.

3) A social marketing campaign should deliver what it promises

Knowing that a social marketer has to balance both internal and external environments it may be so easy to get lost within the layers of messages that permeates within the ring of environments.  As such, this is where the science and best practices of marketing takes in full picture.  At social marketing campaign should not be overtaken by the complexity of a social issue that's being addressed by the campaign itself but rather it should be able to approach its goals in a very systematic way.

 









Saturday, July 7, 2012

Nothing? Say Nothing to Communicate

A digital painting that I did in 21st February 2010.  That moment when I got nothing to say but I ache to make it known. 
"If you have nothing to say, say nothing." - Mark Twain


That was quite profound! It feels so deep when you don't have anything to say but you still have to say it  - well at least say nothing so that people around you would know that you got nothing to say.  Oh the beauty of communication captured like fireflies by Mark Twain.


Why pick such a tone of ambiguity when writing a blog on the beauty of communication?  And why communication?


It has been a month and four days to be exact of my second semester with the University of the Philippines Open University (UPOU).  Nearly eight months ago, I joined the queue of working professionals who are pushing for more learnings.  Thanks to distance learning, UPOU is able to take me in while in Singapore. Now I am in my second semester doing Masters in Development Communication. Easy? No not at all I had mountains of adjustments.  Like having to study four times the speed of seconds.  Like having to master the art of speed reading.  Like having to force yourself the discipline of time management when work demands 101% of your time, when family expresses their love by surprise week long visits and you just have to reciprocate by being with them... when you are married and your spouse silently wages war to get your attention, top it with school timelines, tons of readings, learning blogs ... the list just goes on and on.  It seems endless but surprisingly I see it adjusting into the kind of fit that I have in mind, hearth, and will.  


So why blog about communication?


I do because of three reasons ...


Firstly, I find it easy to start my class participation in my subject DEV202 - a study on Development Communication, Concepts, and Approaches,  by writing my thoughts on communication as a student of development communication.  


Secondly, I do because I think I am a natural communicator.  Yes I talk a lot and I have difficulty stopping even if I got nothing to say.  But please don't get me wrong, I am not talkative (ask my friends) I just like to talk, listen, and exchange thoughts especially on topics that  touch the heart, like topics about family, home, children and topics that bring in creativity like nature, food, music, and the beautiful world.


Thirdly, I do because over the 12 years of my career in the nonprofit world, I have seen the  immense power in communication.  I work for an international relief and development aid agency.  I am part of the marketing team of my organization and my specific role requires me to help keep engagement touchpoints for our supporters.  There are a lot of engagement touchpoints that we do but in all of these the common ingredient is communication or the need to communicate. I communicate development.  We communicate development so that it spreads inspiration and gives opportunity for our supporters to be moved to action.


Trying to relax my chin and muscles before hosting a  special gathering for  our organization's supporters 

So, in this blog I won't use what the title of this blog says because I got something to say.

I want to learn to communicate ... communicate for development... that's why I am writing this blog.

Cheers :))